March 25, 2009
 
            Fay called the Fish and game director about doing a fish hatchery and  yes it is possible to do and there is money available to build and operate it in the form of a grant. It will take time. He is sending her the proposed requirements for building the facility. They require about five acres for what we want to build. We would hatch the fry from eggs they would provide, we would raise them to about Ten inches and they would plant them in various streams in southern California. He said we could also raise them for the eggs for the first year's hatch. There is a demand for other species of fish as well and he is sending their requirements also.
           The city said for us to have our contractor come to them and they could work all the details for the mobile and RV parks. By the time the land has cleared escrow they could have all the paperwork ready. Fay called the contractor that built our building and he would very much like to do this project for us. He is very familiar with shoreline building. He said the swamp area could be to our advantage for fill dirt and for a inland marina for both facilities. I told Fay to proceed with the purchase of the land.
           Fay was jumping up and down when I went to her office. He accepted the deal and she was beside herself with excitement. Kay, I love the way you do things, are you doing this by yourself? At this point I am but we will see how it goes after the land is paid for. Lets go to lunch and talk about it. Fay is becoming my personal secretary and she loves doing it. We arrived at the Harbor House for lunch and Fay was full of questions. Now you're talking a marina or two? yes two will work much better and we can have launch ramps and storage areas for trailers for each park The mobile park will need boat storage in the marina for the owners as well as on land in an RV storage for the residents who live there. As soon as we close escrow I want billboards on the property with visuals of the proposed designed parks. The contractor for my building should be able to help us out. I will call him this afternoon and ask him for an architect.
           I went shopping for drafting paper and supplies to come up with some ideas for the property. I found a place that could make a large copy of the plot plan and give me a scale to work with to make it work for me. I had six copies made to sketch on. Now I had my work cut out for me. I spent the rest of the day figuring out what to do with the property. Fay called to tell me the contractor who built my building and the architect both would like to meet with me tomorrow at the property. Fay also said she was putting the property into escrow tomorrow if it's ok? I said for her to wait until I talk to everyone at the property tomorrow and she said Ok.
          I went to bed thinking I was spending way too much on this project. I see myself saying things that I have heard my dad say when I lived at home. Am I becoming my dad or have I learned things I don't realize that I know. I say the same things the same as he did and they work for me. As a teenager living at home I had little respect for my dad, but as an adult I realize he was working even when he was watching the news or his favorite TV show. I once resented him for being a womanizer but now I understand it was only sex. How do two people have sex for thirty five years without going crazy? They don't have sex with each other.
          My mother told me one time that she had sex with the pastor of her church when she was seventeen and he told her that it was his duty to do it and God would love her for it. After several times she really learned to like it and she wanted to do it more and the pastor told her they couldn't do it anymore. She went to his wife and asked her why God wanted her to and now she can't.  His wife told her to find a young man her age and he would show her what to do. The next Sunday the pastor and his wife had moved away and the church was closed until a new pastor moved to town. She married my dad a few months later and she never told him about the pastor but she knew he had several girl friends before her and she new about most of them all the time they were married. He was a heavy drinker and when I was born they stopped having sex and soon after that she met a man that was much younger than her and she found it easy to find younger men to please her. She had a strong passion for sex and she could not stand the smell of my dad or his drinking and smoking. The women he met left their smell in his laundry and my mother really didn't care after awhile. He was a good provider and he was gone most of the time and when he was home he was drunk and she was raising me.........KB

 

 
 
 

 

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